Barely double digits, I remember it well. The stairs on the side of a smaller, white building, led down to the place I gathered each Sunday. One might think it was bleak. I can’t remember many windows. And the floor, I believe, was cement. Yet, as we unstacked chairs on Sunday mornings, I couldn’t wait for […]
How to Not Drown in Do’s & Don’ts
Of the millions of hits I have received on this blog, the most popular by far is “20 Do’s and Don’ts for a Lasting Marriage”. It’s not even a post, really, but a list of things put on my heart to share, as I have experienced marriage for twenty-eight plus years. And it’s become clear over […]
What is the Obsession with the Gabby Petito / Brian Laundrie Case?
On July 2nd, 2021, twenty-two year old Gabby Petito left with her boyfriend, Brian Laundrie in her converted “Garden on Wheels”. (Aka white van, turned into a mobile living space) On September 1st, twenty-three year old Brian returned to his home in Florida, with Gabby’s van, but without her, after accessing $1,000 from her credit cards. Once […]
An Answer to other Anxious Actors, Striving for Some Position in the World
Silence dances into every crevass of my mind, like a game of hide-and-seek, exposing even unspoken lies, keeping me from myself. We are all a bunch of actors. Convincing the world, but more so ourselves, that we are able, capable, strong… Worthy of living this life we’ve been given. But, what about when we stumble on […]
What Do You Do When You Have No Faith Left?
I used to think I had faith. I spouted from the roof tops, my devotion. Like Peter, I boasted, “I will never deny you, Lord.” I was shallow and arrogant. Caught up in a wave of my own emotions. My foundation untested; by storms, waves…The rattlings of my own weary heart. Like Joseph, I had my […]
A Little Message for Those Afraid to Die or Who Have Lost Someone They Love
He came to say goodbye to my fourth daughter. She had been crying that morning and couldn’t go back to sleep. So, we tucked her in, like a marshmellow, between both my husband and me. She was sound asleep, like she is this morning. And then I see him like a ball of light; intent, focused, […]